Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

[lucinda]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Dearest Scoots,
I have done a lot of grief in the last few years and it there will be good days and bad days. Acknowledge those days and if people do not allow you to grieve the way you want then tell them where to go.

You will miss your darling Mark every day and the pain and sadness will sometimes be almost too much to bear. Feel free to cry, if you need to go out to a big paddock and yell and scream - do it, even if people start to think you are a raving lunatic, it is best to let it all out.

One thing about that pain and sadness is that it will always be there and will become a part of you, it will never go away. You will though, learn to live with it and will get on with your life.

Love and hugs

Cindy

[telemaster]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

What can I say- to lose a partner is heart wrenching. Deepest sympathy with and to you, Scoota and your son. You will triumph also- you are obviously made of powerful stuff, love life and have a great capacity for love.
All the best
Brett

[gregpullman]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Were proud of you Scoots, sounds like youre handling it well. I know the reality of this sort of thing can take a long time to sink in, so dont feel youre going backwards if things start going pear-shaped in a few months. Its all part of the process of dealing with loss, and is necessary to be able to move forward.

All the best.

[COFFEECHASER]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Hi ScootaGal,

It does indeed sound like you have a great support network and great hope in this time. It sounds like a great tribute to Mark on Monday from what you wrote and it is great that you have people to share that with also. A few laughs, tears, and red wine sound like it was a great rememberance and celebration of someone that will always be a major part of your life.

Along with so many people on this forum my thoughts, and definately my prayers will be with you.

I look forward to you being back contributing to this forum; to hear your barista advice and correcting my grammar as you do both of these things so well

Brett

[Sparky]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal


Im so sorry to hear of your loss. Take good care of yourself and your son. Im lost for words...

Sometimes, when I see a sunset or catch the scent of the fresh spring air, Im filled with a love for life and all its wonders. Even when my heart is aching...

[gregpullman]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Even though theres quite a spectrum of users, characters and personalities on this forum, its remarkable how something like this snaps everyone to attention and directs their thoughts to things beyond this life. I think most of us have some capacity to perceive divine things; its just a pity we stop to reflect on them so rarely and so briefly.

[mauricem]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

I too would like to extend my condolences for your sad loss, Ive enjoyed reading your contributions to the group and even though I dont know you personally your posts reveal that you are an open caring and sharing person. These attributes do not exist in a vacuum and have clearly been nurtured in a loving relationship.

The next few months will be tough but with the gift of your young son by your side part of your husband will always be there.

Im sure a future with much happiness lies ahead for you and your family

All the best

Maurice

[rayzurhed]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Scoota Gal- When I heard , my heart sank!
People are just not prepared when this sort of thing happens to friends.
Now that the shock has passed for me :-/, I will be praying for you over the coming days and weeks.
Bless you.
RH -Scott-

[Viviane]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Sounds like youre hanging in there, Scoota, which is about you can do right now. Your son and your faith will keep you on track most days, the off track days will also be healing ones, though they wont seem like it at the time.

You and your son will be in my thoughts over the Christmas period.

Megan

[asqui]

Re: Our deepest condolences to Scoota Gal

Sorry to hear about your loss Scoota,

*hugs*

Lachlan